![Men confess what they really want their wives to do in the bedroom](https://images.ladbible.com/resize?type=webp&quality=1&width=3840&fit=contain&gravity=auto&url=https://images.ladbiblegroup.com/v3/assets/blt8bbf16c2d7a209e5/blt963f60e003740531/6580681dea940e040aa3277c/what-men-really-want-bedroom.png)
The weird and wonderful world of sex can always be a tad tricky to navigate.
Whether it's feeling awkward at expressing your true desires, embarrassed about slightly more raunchy kinks or scared of being so vulnerable - it's a fairly universal experience.
So, to make things a little easier, married men across the globe have taken to anonymous secret-sharing app Whisper to confess what they really want their wives to do in the bedroom.
The blokes opened up about all their fantasies, kinks, fetishes and everything in-between.
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The confessions ranged from the men looking for ways to add a little 'spice' to their love life, to some totally questioning the status of their marriage altogether based on their hidden desires.
A lot of the men seemed to be interested in inviting other parties into their sex life with one man sharing: "I want to try having sex while another couple has sex in the same room. Too bad my wife is so not on board."
Revealing their interested in voyeurism, a second revealed: "I want to watch my wife with another woman."
"I really want my wife to try swinging with me," added a third. "I think it would liven up our sex life, and life in general."
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![Married men confessed their hidden sexual desires on anonymous secret-sharing app, Whisper.](https://images.ladbible.com/resize?type=webp&quality=1&width=3840&fit=contain&gravity=auto&url=https://images.ladbiblegroup.com/v3/assets/blt8bbf16c2d7a209e5/bltb9c70cf3032feefa/658072cf9af122040a505b14/what-men-really-want-bedroom-life.jpeg)
A handful admitted they were craving something a little more hardcore with one husband saying: "I really wish my wife would try bondage with me. She's always scared to spice it up."
"I wish my gf was more dominant in bed," echoed a second while a third similarly expressed his interest for his partner being more active in the sack: "I secretly wish my gf was better/louder in bed. I also wish she made more moves on me instead of me starting every time."
A fourth declared: "I wish my wife liked to be rougher in bed. I may have gotten married to early."
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"I wish my girl would watch porn with me. I just want to spice it up," explained a fifth.
Others took the opportunity to open up about their sexual dissatisfaction with one married man hitting out: "I wish my wife knew how to actually please me in bed. You'd think that after so long she would know, even after talking about it."
![Many men expressed their fetishes to 'spice' things up in the bedroom.](https://images.ladbible.com/resize?type=webp&quality=1&width=3840&fit=contain&gravity=auto&url=https://images.ladbiblegroup.com/v3/assets/blt8bbf16c2d7a209e5/blt12f791184bdfc1ab/658072e6e806da040a633713/what-men-really-want-bedroom-sex.jpeg)
"I wish my wife didn't lie about faking it in bed," highlighted a second. "Like, I've already caught you - please fess up!"
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"Wish my gf actually wanted to have sex more then once a month," another complained.
A couple of men opened up about their desires to have sex with a man, with one wondering: "I don't know how to tell my wife I want to try having sex with a guy."
One bloke who'd already had a similar conversation with his partner added: "I told my wife I want a threesome with another man."
A final spouse revealed his secret fetish: "I wish my wife would cheat on me and tell me about it."
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Did any of the confessions surprise you?
Topics: Sex and Relationships, Life