Men share eight things they're too scared to ask for in the bedroom

Several men were asked to share the things they’re too scared to ask for in the bedroom, and their answers may shock you.

To find out the things that men secretly want to dabble in behind closed doors, Men’s Health spoke to men, all of whom aged in their mid or late 20s about their desires.

One man said he’d like to be dominated, but doesn’t want to ask his partner because of a very specific reason.

“Having to ask kind of defeats the purpose,” the 27-year-old responded.

A second man aged 24-year-old man said group sex is something he’s always wanted to try, but he hasn’t been able to find a partner who’d also be up for it.

“Group sex is something I think would be a crazy experience, but there’s never been a partner who I would ask for that. It would take a lot of alcohol to admit.

A third man, aged 26, said: “I wish I could just ask for a blowjob sometimes without feeling like I’m asking to be serviced.

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While an answer from a 29-year-old guy was quite similar to the first; he wants his female partner to be ‘aggressive’ and ‘take initiative’. The fourth guy in the list said: “I like it when women are aggressive and creative [and] take initiative and surprise me. You can imagine that it could be difficult to ask your partner to be more spontaneous though.”

Others had more specific fantasies, with the fifth guy, aged 21, declaring he wants to try bondage. “I’ve always wanted to tie a girl up, but I’m worried about asking for that. I watch Law & Order. I know how wrong that can go.”

The sixth man, 26, said he likes when a woman ‘talks dirty’, but he feels embarrassed about asking. The seventh, a 25-year-old, said he’d want to have a threesome.

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And the eighth and final answer, from a 27-year-old man, reads: “What I’ve always wanted to do is have sex with a girl between her boobs, but I wouldn’t want to ask. It could be degrading.”

Meanwhile, experts at IllicitEncounters have this week surveyed 2,000 men to see what they’ve been wishing for from their partner in the bedroom.

And luckily for women across the country, it turns out that the most desired bedroom antics for men are really quite simple.

Sex and relationship expert at IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni, told press: "There are all kinds of tricks that we all wish our lovers would do to make sex better.

"The key to a healthy sex life is being completely up front with your partner and sharing the best tricks that work. What the results show is that men most crave a break in routine and getting out of a sex rut."

You can read the full list here.